For your partner to enjoy great sex you have to understand that what women want, is not always what men believe they want.

Great sex for women is a combination of both mental and physical stimulation.

Both areas need to be targeted, for a women to achieve satisfaction or orgasm.

If you don’t make the mistakes below, you and your partner will enjoy better sex together, or great sex!

1. Kissing

90% of women in a recent poll claimed they did not get enough French kissing.

For women it is one of the most sensual and personal things you can do, to express passion, desire and love, so always make sure you start with some kissing to set the mood.

2. Not Enough Foreplay

Men are more easily aroused than women, women need far more foreplay.

If your idea of foreplay is around 5 minutes, you need to think again and target 30 minutes or more, which leads onto the next point.

3. Neglecting key erogenous zones

There are the obvious erogenous zones to target, however there are many that are neglected, here are just some of them.

The neck – The nape of the neck is one of the most sensitive areas for any women and if it’s kissed and nibbled, your partner will be highly aroused.

The Buttocks – What women is not sensitive about her buttocks?

Most are and many are extremely self conscious about it.

By kissing it, squeezing it and telling your partner how much you love it, you will make her feel relaxed and confident.

The inner thighs – Before heading for the obvious region, pause at the inner thighs and tease your partner. The area is sensitive and the expectation of what may come next is highly arousing!

The hair and ears – Many women simply love having their hair being brushed and played with and its highly sesitive. The ears are a mass of sensitive nerve endings, that if targeted will be highly appreciated.

There are other erogenous zones and the above are just a few examples – try and target all the above and others for a complete sexual experience.

4. Coming to soon

Many men have this problem and it’s suprisingly common.

In most instances the solution is simple:

Slow down and also learn to control your breathing!

We have written on how to last longer in bed in other articles and it far easier to achieve sexual control, than many men think.

5. Trying complicated positions

You’ve seen it in a porn movie and think lets try it!

However a complicated position where you need to spend all your concentration just to try and hold the position is not erotic at all.

Sexual positions should allow you to concentrate on the sensation, NOT The act itself.

There are around 4 positions that are known as the best positions for sex and you need to know what they are. They are mentioned in the ancient works of the Kama Sutra and the Perfumed garden - if you don’t know what they are look them up.

6. Not using the power of words

Sex is not a place for silence – We express ourselves with words in everyday life and sex is no different.

Tell your partner how much you are enjoying sex and how much you desire them.

You also need to communicate to find out what your partner likes – sex without talking and expressing yourself, is simply cold and unemotional - sex without emotion and communication, will never be great sex, so learn the power of sexual communication.

7. When its over its over

So you have finished the act and you wander off and make a coffee, or out the door, this will not be appreciated.

Sex is a coming together of bodies, but it’s also the coming together of spirit and you need to express your bond with your partner after sex has finished to complete the experience.

Hold her, tell you enjoyed it and be affectionate.

8. Lack of romance

What women doesn’t like being given flowers or taken for a surprise dinner?

Not many!

Use it to your advantage, to set the mood and surprise your partner.

If you make an effort and add a little romance, you will reap the dividends later.

Most women want a considerate lover and someone who makes an effort and this does not mean just in the bedroom. Adding a touch of romance to your relationship will mean that you are setting a mood for sex to.

So there you have it, 8 common errors made by men in terms of sexual mistakes.

The good news is they are all easy to correct and if you don’t make them, you will enjoy better sex and a more fulfilling relationship.

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Female masturbation could easily qualify as one of the most controversial sex-health related topics in the world in any age. In most cultures, a woman masturbating is something that is unheard of. If it were ever found out that a woman pleasures herself in such a manner, then she would have to bear the brunt of ostracism in the very society she lives in. But the trends are changing slowly. In some advanced cultures, the fact that women do masturbate to relieve their sexual tensions is coming out into the open. Women are increasingly talking about their little solo stints with as much frankness as men talk about their jack-off sessions.

Masturbation is the act of stimulating one’s own genitals by hand or by any other agency. The stimulation is generally done to the point of a climax, which may be quite similar to the orgasmic pleasure obtained in sexual intercourse. Both men and women masturbate; and as already mentioned above, men masturbate with more openness than women. But women also masturbate, and this article weighs the pros and cons of female masturbation.

Women generally masturbate by arousing their external genitals with their fingers. They would stimulate the vulva and the labia, with special pressure on the clitoris. Some women like to enhance the experience by introducing penis-shaped objects like cucumbers and bananas into their vaginas, and rubbing them in such a way that they would stimulate the clitoris. Women could use KY Jelly or Vaseline in order to make the contact smoother and better in feel. There are also several sexual toys that can be used, such as dildos, which come replete with vibrators operated by batteries. These vibrating dildos are considered to be the extreme when it comes to female masturbation.

It can be understood, therefore, that female masturbation is much different from male masturbation. For men, the only way of masturbating is by exerting different kinds of pressures on the penis (or anal stimulation), but for women, there are several areas along the genital tract that can be stimulated. Though the clitoris is the focal point, there are several other erogenous zones, including the famous G-spot within the vagina.

Also men need physical touch in order to masturbate. This is not the case in women. Women can masturbate even by mere thought, without even touching their genitals once. Women are known to masturbate without touching their genitals while reading erotic material, listening to soulful music or even by just looking at a painting or a piece of art. This enables women to masturbate even in public without being caught. In women, masturbation could become an entirely mental process, while in men the physical aspect of masturbation is much too important.

Apart from the immense pleasure it provides, female masturbation has several uses also. Today, since masturbation in women has come out in the women, some gynecologists are in fact prescribing masturbation to some women. It is interesting to see what the uses of masturbation are for women:

§ Firstly, masturbation helps to relieve sexual frustrations. Nowadays with almost all women having their careers and being forced to live solitary lives, the sexual seclusion has become a part of life. Masturbation can take part of a bit of that seclusion.

§ Women who have diseases like diabetes can find penetrative sex too discomforting. For such women, masturbation is prescribed to relieve sexual frustrations.

§ Many women are deciding to remain single nowadays. There is also the scare of a lot of sexual diseases. Thus, women can look upon masturbation as an option.

§ Most women complain that their men lack the knowledge to give them satisfaction. Such women could masturbate themselves in front of their male partners to show them how to go about the foreplay and actual intercourse. In fact, the sight of a woman masturbating in front of him is a great way to increase his libido.

§ Women who are pregnant do not indulge in active sexual intercourse as there are a lot of risks involved. However, pregnancy is known to increase the libido in women. Such couples could mutually masturbate each other to relieve some of the stress.

However, there are also some risks involved with masturbation in women that are not existent in men. Women who masturbate actively must take care of the following:

§ Women must not insert their fingers in the vagina with untrimmed nails. The nails could damage the inner delicate lining of the vagina. Before masturbating, the woman must neatly file and trim her nails.

§ It is dangerous to insert any fruits or vegetables into the vagina that are small in size. There is a risk of them getting stuck in the vaginal tract or even entering the uterus.

§ Any tools with sharp edges must not be entered in the vagina.

§ A woman who masturbates a lot could get so much hooked with it that she might find intercourse boring.

For women, masturbation could be a way to relieve their sexual stresses; but it is also a method of realizing their freedom. If done correctly and within limit, it could make the woman lead a better, stress-free life.

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Also read more about the Secret of How to Increase Libido.

Having a healthy sexual experience is a vital part of ANY relationship. If you can make things fun and exciting, then it’ll be easy to please your woman

Unfortunately, there are many times when the sexual chemistry has gone out of a relationship. Even if you’re with an incredible beautiful woman, you’ll face some moments when you need to make things more exciting.

That’s why playing sex games is a great way to spice things up. In this article, you’ll learn about 3 fun sex games you can try with your woman.

Let’s get started…

1- The Love Slave

The major goal of any sexual experience is to have an orgasm. This is especially true when it comes to pleasing your woman. If you can rock her world and give her mind-blowing orgasms, then she’ll really look forward to your love making sessions.

So what’s the best way to give a woman incredible orgasms?

Well it’s simple…

You have to concentrate on her pleasure instead of your own.

The first sex game is easy. You and your woman take turns being each other’s love slave. When it’s time to be her slave, you follow all her orders, and serve her needs. During this time you follow all her requests and focus on giving her pleasure.

Then when it’s your turn, you become the master and order her around. She has to focus on giving you pleasure.

This sex game is great because you have fun with swapping roles and taking turns being a dominant person.

2- Take Your Time

Another great sex game is to slowly build towards orgasm. Now as I mentioned in the last sex tip, it’s important to focus on giving your woman an orgasm. In reality, most people are in a quick hurry to achieve their orgasm. Now instead of doing this, you’ll take time and make things delightfully slow.

A great way to play this sex game is to concentrate on NOT giving each other an orgasm. Instead you should slowly build up towards the orgasm and then stop. The object of the game is to come really close and then keep back off.

Then continue doing this for a number of times. The game goes on till both of you can’t control yourself any more. Trust me, this will really provide you both with explosive orgasms.

3- Two Steps Forward One Step Back

This sex game involves building things towards sex and then pulling back. It works like this…

When you’re with your woman, it’s important to slowly build towards an orgasm. You give her pleasure, then completely back up and cease what you’re doing. By doing this, you’re teasing her and making her really want sex.

Teasing and not giving her ultimate pleasure is a great way to build up intensity. When you hold back from a woman, you’ll drive her crazy with pleasure.

Sex games are a great way to increase the chemistry in the bedroom. If you’re able to implement these three sex games in your lives, you’ll create a great amount of sexual intensity.

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