Two Types of Female Orgasms

One of the biggest misconceptions people have about female orgasms is that they are all created equal. The truth is that not all orgasms are the same: they may all be equally pleasurable but they are generally arrived at through different means.

Basically, there are two types of female orgasms: vaginal and clitoral. In this chapter, we’re going to briefly discuss both types. This will provide you with some background that you’ll need when we can begin experimenting with orgasm-producing techniques a little later in the book.

Vaginal Orgasm

As you’ll recall from the first chapter, this type of orgasm was the only type Freud and other men of his time felt to be legitimate types of sexual pleasure for women to experience. Unfortunately for women, only about 20% can receive an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. The other 80% need something a little extra.

Before we get into that, let me explain exactly what we mean by vaginal orgasm. A vaginal orgasm occurs solely because of stimulation of the vagina. That stimulation is usually in the form of the thrusting of the male penis during vaginal intercourse.

The reason most women do not receive an orgasm just from penetration is that the vagina is not a highly sensitive area. This is actually a good thing. Remember that the vagina is not just used for sex but also for delivering babies. If the inside walls of the vagina were made up of concentrated nerve endings like we find in the nipple, the clitoris, or the penis, then childbirth would be even more difficult for women.

In fact, only the first two inches of the vagina are sensitive at all. So why do some women have orgasms solely from vaginal stimulation? The answer is they probably aren’t. Women who report vaginal orgasms benefit from their anatomy. In some women, the labia minora are formed in such a way that vaginal penetration actually causes the labia to rub against or gently pull on the clitoris. This, not vaginal stimulation, is leading to the orgasm in most cases. Technically, however, this would still be considered a vaginal orgasm because there is not direct stimulation of the clitoris.

Another reason why some women report having vaginal orgasms is that the shape of the penis and their preferred position allow for stimulation of the G-spot. Because the G-spot is linked to increased pleasure and may also induce orgasms, this is another possibility worth considering.

The bottom line here though is that vaginal orgasms are not common. Men and women need to realize that penetration is often not going to be enough to accomplish the goal. The good news is that gives both partners an excuse to experiment with some new things, including some we’ll discuss later in the book.

Clitoral Orgasm

By far the most common way for a woman to regularly reach orgasm is through direct or indirect clitoral stimulation. Before we just into that subject, I think it may help to share with you some information about the clitoris.

The clitoris is located just by the vaginal entrance and behind the labia
minora. In most women, it is a small nub of flesh which contains a high concentration of nerve endings which make it highly sensitive. It is often covered by a clitoral hood. Many people don’t realize that only a small portion of the clitoris is actually visible. The remainder of the organ is surrounded by the rest of the reproductive system and extends all the way to the bottom of the pubic bone.

Two things are particularly interesting about the clitoris. First, all female mammals have a clitoris. This is interesting because the sole purpose, at least according to biologists, of the clitoris is sexual pleasure. That would seem to mean that humans aren’t the only ones who enjoy the way sex feels.

Second, the clitoris is made from the same material as the penis. In fact, in men the clitoris becomes a full-fledged penis after the embryo is exposed to testosterone in the womb. Just like the penis, the clitoris fills with blood and becomes erect during sexual arousal. The clitoral hood is essentially the same as the foreskin of a penis.

The only real difference between a clitoris and a penis – besides location in the body – seems to be that the penis is also used for urination while the clitoris is not.

With that said, its important to realize that the clitoris is really similar in size to the penis, even though most of it cannot be seen. Vibrations through the pelvic region caused by intercourse could stimulate the nerve endings in the unseen part of the clitoris as well and this can also cause orgasms.

What many people don’t realize about the clitoris is that the penis alone usually cannot stimulate it. Because of its position in the woman’s body, the ability of the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris is extremely difficult. That means traditional intercourse usually needs to be coupled with clitoral stimulation.

The question is how does one engage in clitoral stimulation. Some male partners take the approach that the women should be responsible for the stimulation themselves, which has always seemed a bit unfair to me since the woman is providing him with the stimulation he needs to reach orgasm. However, this is one way to deal with it.

Another method is by, what I like to call multi-tasking. Multi-tasking basically means the man does more than one thing at the same time. For example, he may be penetrating the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris in one way or another (we’ll discuss those ways a little later). If the couple wants to achieve orgasm at or near the same time, this is clearly the best option.

Other couples I’ve met with have resorted to an alternative approach. One person reaches orgasm at a time. Depending on how each person best reaches orgasm, this may be a possibility but it’s usually not the most satisfactory approach.

The best thing about clitoral orgasms is that they can be achieved in many different ways. Because the entire area is highly sensitive, experimenting with these types of orgasms can also add some interest and spice to sexual relationships which may have become less enthusiastic over time.

And the key is experimenting because different women prefer different types of clitoral stimulation. While some prefer direct stimulation, others find it uncomfortable and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stimulated instead. Women who have masturbated will generally have a much better idea of what type of stimulation they prefer than women who have not.

Before we close this chapter, let’s talk about what happens during a clitoral orgasm. As I mentioned above, the clitoris feels up with blood and becomes erect like a penis. This means its usually easier to spot when a woman is aroused. Because the clitoris does not need to be erect for sexual intercourse to occur, clitoral orgasms will only happen if the woman is aroused properly. That means some type of foreplay is generally a requirement. When the clitoris is stimulate repeatedly, it becomes more engorged with blood and this further heightens its sensitivity. With another stimulation a point is reached when all of the tension in the area must be released and this point is considered the orgasm.

Gabriell Moore Is owner and founder of The Female Ejaculation Revealed, a site to help men give women an orgasm every time. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/femaleorgasm/

“Does size matter?” is indeed a million dollar question. But it also requires a no-brainer answer.

Its no secret that men are obsessed with the size of their penis and many have found ways to make their manhood larger. Nothing wrong with that, provided they do it the right way. So size does matter, at least to a man. Why? Because a small penis equals diminished masculinity, virility, and may also be associated with impotency - in the minds of men.

This is also THE reason why the penis enlargement industry is booming. Lots of men are desperate to increase their penis size and are game to try anything. No doubt, the media also play a part with their attention grabbing stories of supposedly well-endowed male.

But what about the women folks? Does a man’s penis size really matter to a lady? Well, the answer is not so simple. Size does matter but it refers to the girth, not the length. But more on that later.

Research has shown that the average penis size is not the 12 inch, bulky monster owned by porn stars. These porn stars are the exceptions, not the rule. They are very well-endowed because they are picked from the biggest and the best but do not be fooled that they represent the masses. The average penis size is actually a lot smaller - between 5.5 - 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth.

Back to the women folks. Most women agree that the width (or girth) of the penis is more important when it comes to sexual pleasure. Length does nothing. Why? Because the nerves that are stimulated during sex are found near the entrance of the vagina and the anus, not deep inside the canal.

Penis girth is more significant because a bigger and broader manhood can stretch the vaginal or anal walls that stimulate the nerves. This produces friction and the tingling sensation that drive most women wild. Still, a broad penis cannot be too short otherwise it will look out of shape (like a barrel?). Therefore a balance in girth and length is most desirable.

So, based on the sexual pleasure angle, women do love larger penises. But remember that women do not go for sex alone. Romance also play a big role so mix a bigger penis with romantic ideas and you will have a whale of a time together.

If you are lacking in size and want to get a bigger penis, there are some legitimate products and methods you can use. These will not only increase your penile lenght but also penis girth as well.

A good penis enlargement pill plus exercises system can effectively help you gain inches in lenght and girth.

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