Female sexual satisfaction is a reality that nobody can wish away so easily in this day and age. Time was when issues of female sexual satisfaction were disregarded by all especially the women themselves. Females, especially wives, were treated as mere chattels only good enough to satisfy the amorous advances of their masters without a thought about their sexual feelings as human beings. Sexually enquiring women were regarded as prostitutes who should be thrown out of marital relationships. To maintain the status quo, most women suppressed their sexual desires subsuming their erotic desires in household chores and gossips as well as very fertile sexual fantasies often released in their bathrooms for fear of being discovered. Some females were getting their sexual desires satisfied by fellow women who knew what they wanted and how to give it to them.

Times have changed. Female sexual satisfaction is now on the front burner in discussions among the female folk as well as the men. So many websites are dedicated solely to female sexual satisfaction. Many books now abound that treat the issue of female libido enhancement and sexual satisfaction by the males. The sexual table has turned against the men. Most males are now realizing that they are not men enough to satisfy their women’s sexual desires and libido. A lot of male enhancement products out there have not yet helped the men to give their women complete sexual satisfaction.

Men have devised penis enlargement pills, penis stretchers and patches as well as exercises aimed at enlarging, elongating and hardening their penises for the sexual satisfaction of their female partners, But the women are still not being satisfied sexually. Men have gone from the Amazon to the jungle in search of herbs that will give them enough staying power to give their women the elusive orgasm, but the women are still complaining. All the products they have devised against premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction have not helped them to achieve female sexual satisfaction. More and more men at very young ages are now suffering from one form of erectile dysfunction or the other; the chief being premature ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is when a man ejaculates before penetration of the female or ejaculates soon after penetration before a meaningful thrusting has taken place. Neither the man nor his female sexual partner is satisfied from such sexual activity because none of them has reached the peak of sexual satisfaction - orgasm. This leaves the female high and dry and the male disappointed and his ego deflated.

Both the females and the males are not taking female sexual satisfaction for granted. They have all since realized that the women hold the key to better relationships and progress in the family. And good female sexual satisfaction holds the key to keeping the women happy and cooperative.

Many sex enhancement products have been devised and natural aphrodisiacs discovered to promote female sexual satisfaction and enable females increase their libido at will. These female sex enhancement products have heightened female sexual enjoyment thus enabling the women to reach orgasm at very short notice. And the multi orgasmic woman has never failed to reach orgasm again and again and again.

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Many pregnant women are very concerned about the effects of sexual intercourse on the unborn child. Of course no expectant mother wants her unborn child to be harmed, and it can be a little embarrassing asking your doctor, especially if you have a male GP. In any case, when you first see the doctor and tell him the happy news and start the booking in procedure, asking questions about your love life isn’t at the forefront of your mind.

When you first discover that you are pregnant your mind starts to mull over a whole lot of issues - the birth, health issues, money worries, if you will cope as a mother, will you be able to keep your job, how bad is morning sickness… The list seems endless and its all part of the motherhood preparation, especially so if this is your first child. Towards the end of this list is the question ‘Can I still have sexual intercourse?’ Could you deny your relationship intimacy for 9 months?

During the first 12 weeks of pregnancy you must take life easy, no stretching or over doing things. These 12 weeks are when most miscarriages take place and one in three first time pregnancies end in miscarriage.

However, the womb is a very safe place for baby, protected by the stomach wall and the amniotic fluid that the baby floats around in. Providing sex is not overly enthusiastic and it is gentle love making, it is perfectly safe to have sexual intercourse during pregnancy, without causing harm to the baby.

Sometimes it is men who are worried about sexual activity during pregnancy. Despite men thinking that they have a huge cock that they are going to beat the baby about the head with if they do make love to a pregnant woman, nature has already taken care of this problem. The cervix is a tiny opening at the neck f the womb. The cervix is too tiny for a penis to penetrate and during pregnancy the cervix closes and doesn’t re-open until it is time for childbirth. Because of this the penis can not penetrate the womb and damage the baby.

However, many women may feel less like sex during pregnancy which is understandable because pregnancy can cause women feel unattractive and fat, sore swollen breasts, ill with morning sickness that can occur any time of the day or night, and tired of fatigue. It is important for the expectant father at this time to not press his sexual advances and instead to enjoy other intimacies such as massage.

Sensual massage oils can be bought with aromatherapy properties, which can relax and soothe. If you are looking to unearth your passion try a massage oil with aphrodisiac properties. Also time alone self-pleasuring can help kick start your sexual desire. Sex aside some time each day to pleasure yourself, whether you feel like it or not and it will help to bring back the desire for sexual contact. If you don’t use it you loose it, so slowly build it back up. Clitoral stimulators are a great to use for this. They tend to bring you to climax quickly and they are less intrusive because you use them externally to stimulate the clitoris.

Whether you choose to have sex during your pregnancy or not, it is important to share intimate time as a coupe and to keep a strong bond.

S. Roberts writes for a number of websites including http://www.pleasure-toyz.co.uk a sexual advice website that offers free tips and advice to boost your sex life and to improve your sexual prowess. Visit http://www.pleasure-toyz.co.uk to pick up some saucy tips, today.

“Bloody hell! She writes erotica!” That’s what I heard from the first person I told I was going to be published. Before then, no one knew about my writing. My secret life, and my inner world, were about to be exposed.

When I met my soon-to-be editor at a restaurant in midtown Manhattan, I wore a purple feather boa. I bought the boa to wear when I sat at my computer to write. Somehow, it helped me unlock the inner room where I stored all of my erotic treasures. Wearing that boa in public for the first time externalized my sense of coming out of the closet.

Now, only a short year later, erotic romance is a national phenomenon. The surge in the genre has been widely reported by the media, and has captured the eyes and the imaginations of many romance readers who are ready for more.

My emerging from the shadows as an erotic romance author is not that different from what is happening to romance readers. Women are sexual beings, we always have been. The romance novel is a place where women find a safe haven for their secret desires. The gratification that happens by living vicariously though another’s story helps many women cope with the more mundane aspects of their lives.

The escape factor of a romance novel seems to grow proportionally with the heat in the book. As the novels became edgier, women became bolder. They wanted to ride the wave of a more titillating story. The tingles were more intense, and the climax quite satisfying.

Women looked for romance novels with more of a bite, because they wanted the stories they were reading to carry them farther than traditional romance had. When erotic romance sales began to climb, publishers noticed, Kensington Publishing being one of them. They launched their Aphrodisia erotic romance line and I became an Aphrodisia author.

I write sexually explicit stories for myself. My imagination conjures fantasies, which come alive in my mind. The fantasy grows into a story, with plot, characters and lots of sex. The pleasure of writing the story, and living through the characters, gives me the same rush as reading it. Readers of erotic romance want to explore their long hidden sensual feelings just as I want to explore mine.

As with all things that push the envelope of traditional standards, not everyone is ready for this new explicitness in romance. Some of the detractors say it has gone too far, others have even called it smut. But no one can deny that erotic romance has hit mainstream society.

When women find out what I do, they are eager to buy the books. From my personal experience, the enthusiasm about my writing continues to surprise me. From college age to middle age, from a neighborhood Chinese restaurant, from my doctor’s office to bookstore cashiers, from my friends and family, everyone I know wants to read these erotic books. It is as if mainstream acceptance has legitimized the genre and women have been given permission to read erotica openly.

So, ladies, if you are feeling like you want to add some panache to your life, buy yourself a feather boa and an erotic romance. Just remember, it’s not about the boa.

P. F. Kozak has had a unique perspective on sexuality since she discovered playing doctor, long before puberty. With the publication of her books it is real, and it is only just beginning. Visit PF Kozak