Do you have difficulty with oral sex? Here are some pointers in clear English that can help your performance with women and this often-tricky sexual activity.
Firstly, do not perform oral sex if you are uncomfortable. Many men do not enjoy performing oral sex for a variety of reasons. If you do not enjoy it, then I would recommend that you avoid this type of sexual activity. Women can often tell if a man is not enjoying the performance of oral sex. There are many good options to oral sex that can stimulate a woman without the performance of oral sex, but they will not be covered here.
Secondly, wash your hands. If your partner is clean, you should be too. Dirty hands are often the cause of yeast infections and vaginal irritation. When you begin performing oral sex, gentle massage with your fingers can get things going.
There are many different ways to perform oral sex, and women are often reluctant to tell you if you are performing it incorrectly. Stimulation of the clitoris is very important. The clitoris is a small nubby organ just above the opening of the vagina. It is akin to the penis in sensitivity and full of nerve endings. Be very gentle, because forceful stimulation of the clitoris can initially be painful. However, many women cannot climax without clitoral stimulation. Try different methods. Gentle suckling or licking with the mouth can have a very pleasurable effect.
Next, try insertion of a few fingers into the vagina. Tongue insertion is generally exciting, but the tongue is often not large or thick enough to cause the woman to climax. Penis or finger insertion is more effective. Pinching the exterior of the vaginal lips, (like pinching the top of a taco shell together) can also be very pleasurable. Massage on the interior thighs has a very pleasurable feel for many women, too, and will often be the precursor to a successful climax. I hope these pointers have been helpful. Remember, be open with your partner and enjoy all your sexual experiences.
Christie Pinheiro lives in Northern California with her husband, children, and two spoiled cats. She is a published writer, and earned her advanced degree from San Jose State University.
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