What do men really want from women?

We all know men are visual creatures but they also are highly attracted to the right mental approach.

If you want to attract or please your man here are some tips.

1. Dressing to kill

Men are visual creatures and there are certain areas that you can accentuate to attract them:

Breasts – Men simply love breasts and even if you are not so well endowed in this area, you can make the best of what you have with up lift bra’s and tight fitting tops.

Legs – Heels are one of the biggest turn on’s for men – Why?

Quite simply, they make legs look longer, push out the bottom, make women taller and generally more striking in appearance.

Now in dressing to kill there is a big difference between outside the house and in the bedroom!

When dressing outside you need to be careful to be sexy without looking like a tart.

A good way to look sexy is to accentuate either your top half or bottom half – not both.

For example, if you want to wear killer heels and a short skirt, don’t wear a plunging neckline -it’s important to leave something to the imagination.

Expectation and leaving something to the imagination is crucial.

Now coming to the bedroom you can be as outrageous as you wish!

Men go to lap dancing clubs for a reason – high scantily clad women high heels etc, so try it when he gets home from work and see also how a striptease goes down.

Dancing is a mating call and combined with erotic dress, is guaranteed to get your man’s pulse going.

2. Be the Hunter

Don’t wait for your man to come onto you be the hunter.

A sexy text at work is great, as to are erotic phone conversations or whispering sweet nothings in his ear.

Making the first move is highly erotic and appeals to a man’s ego, so try it.

When it comes to the bedroom be forward and make the first move and lead him where you want him.

3. Remove The Pressure to Perform

Many men feel so much under pressure to perform that they simply flop due to the pressure.

Take the pressure away and try the on top position.

Here you have control and can pleasure yourself the way you want and at the same time, pleasure your partner and relax him.

4. Compliments

Compliments the above point. Men just like women love compliments, so be sure to tell him how much you want him and how much pleasure he is going you.

REMEMBER ..

In all the above points you are not only projecting your sexuality and appealing to his, you are also appealing to his ego.

You are making him feel comfortable and removing the pressure to perform, by taking the lead – you are the hunter, he is the hunted and trust me a lot of men like that feeling.

Try it and see for yourself.
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In our world today, of a great many people living alone, casual sex in clubs and other places is not as uncommon as many people would believe.

Certainly there are clubs where causal sex is sought and offered, but also, there are times and places where causal sex just happens.

Read more so you are ready, and know what to do and how to react.

Social Mores

Depending on your society, sex can be a subject of taboo and restriction, or rather free and causing no special thought. If you are in a society where sex is highly regulated, then casual sex may not be for you, or in any event, you must be clever enough to consider the consequences.

In many areas, casual sex is considered a regular event.

If you are visiting a strange place, you should acquaint yourself BEFORE you go as to the social mores connected with casual sex.

Protection

With sexually transmitted disease in some parts of the world running to epidemic levels, unless you like playing Russian Roulette with your health and life, you must always be protected.

A simple condom is a start, but also some good reminders to try and avoid as much of an exchange of bodily fluids as possible.

The Quickie

If you are after an hour or two in a bed, then casual sex is not your thing.

If you have managed to remove yourself and your partner from one location to the other, then you have moved out of the realm of casual sex into something more structured.

In casual sex, we are looking at a “quickie’ of the 3 to 10 minute sexual encounter.

It is usually done with the positions described below, and over almost before it begins.

It is seldom the woman will finish, but quite possible on the action (thrusting) and technique of the man.

The man will have no problem finishing in most cases.

Best Positions for Casual Sex

The best position for casual sex (where lying down on a bed is not possible) is the Standing Spoons, and Pinned against the Wall.

Standing Spoons. The woman will turn her back to the man, and depending on the woman’s height (including high heel shoes in the equation), she will adjust her buttocks to align with the man’s erect penis.
Usually the woman will bend her knees a bit, the man will grab the woman around her waist, and the woman will assist in the penetration.

Once penetrated, the couple will move as if they were dancing, but in a coordinated movement, with the man thrusting and woman repelling to the coming thrust.

This causes a great stimulation of the woman’s clitoris, and if the position is well done, the g-spot as well. It is possible for a normal sexually experienced woman to orgasm in about 7 minutes on the average.

Pinned Against the Wall. As the name suggests, the woman will face a wall, and place her hands on the wall, supporting her from being too crushed.

The woman will spread her legs and squat just a little (if required) for the man to penetrate.

Once penetrated, the man must do all the work, as the woman is not a good position to help. This is a good position however for g-spot stimulation.

The man should not thrust violently, but offer a slow and steady rhythmic thrusting, and in about 10 to 12 minutes the woman should also reach an orgasm (if the man can last that long).

Remember to always be protected, as you life may be in the balance.

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